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writes:Hello. I like this girl, blah blah blah, you've heard it before. I'm hanging out w/her as much as I can without seeming too clingy, but the problem is, is that most of our time is silent. Girls, what are some questions you'd want to be asked by a guy (they could be normal, or designed to make you feel good with a very subtle, underlying hint of flirtation, possibly [friends first]). Guys, what questions (or things that aren't questions) have you found successful? I don't want you guys to write me a script, I just want some ideas for those awkward silences. Thanks!
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reader, go4jess +, writes (16 November 2008):
Keep it simple the first couple of questions. See what king of mood are they in, and what kind of girl they are. If she doesn't have depths start out by saying "How was your day". that is alaways a good coversation starter. It makes us girls feel like all of your attention is on us.
I hope I helped! If not mail me at go4jess.
-Jessica
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reader, aunty_rach  +, writes (16 November 2008):
I can tell you the questions i hate being asked by guys on dates. it may help you.1) When was your last relationship? - Why? Is it their business?2) How many guys have you slept with? - Again nothing to do with them!So those are my two big no no's! anything else is great, just make sure you ask questions about what she likes doing, where she works, or what she wants to do in life. also don't talk too much, let her talk and ask you questions too. the conversation will just roll, after all you dont want it to become an interview with drinks!
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reader, michele21 +, writes (16 November 2008):
 Just ask her what does she do when shes home alone?? or when she gets home from school. does she like to read?? she more of a mommys girl or daddys girl?? does she wanna go to college?? where does she see her self in 5 years.... I'm sure you can think of stuff just act like your just intrested in her and what she likes... fav. food fav color i mean all kinds of things you can talk about and if she is intrested in you and what you like than she will ask you the same questions back....just make sure you lisen.. thats key.... good luck
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (16 November 2008):
Well it very much depends on the girl.
Some girls will react well to "I saw on the news last night about it kicking off in the Congo - that's terrible isn't it?" and they will be impressed that you care about these things and she'll tell you about her humanitarian fundraiser.
Other girls will say "what's a congo?"
Ask her about what music she's into, compliment her on her clothes and talk to her about her hobbies her hopes her dreams. If you have a connection with a girl you can have a conversation about carrots.
Just ask her what she's into and then find something you have in common.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, vamp-gal +, writes (16 November 2008):
 Ask her questions to try and get to know her better. But nothing too personal, just nice, light conversation. You may find something you both have in common, talk about that, but not too much, that may get a little boring, but just find out more about her, and tell her more about yourself.Hope this helps.
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