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writes: I am a single man who is kind, has a good sense of humour, good hygiene, takes care of himself and his dates and generally behave in the presence of women and give them all the attention and respect they need.For some to me unknown reason, it doesn't work! My dates keep enjoying the company, but seem to dissapear after a few dates. Feels like being used as a doormat. It may be useful to mention, that I met them through internet dating. What more can I do?Also, any advice on how to attract a woman online. I take the initative and write and email asking them relevant questions based on their profiles or common things we share, but alot of them do not reply? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 November 2008): Ok. try the patient approach. First, ensure your posted profile sounds good. a brief description, your likes,(don't include too many dislikes, you'll sound like a fussy moaner) the type of girl you're looking for. Then let THEM respond to you. It may take a while but be assured, there will be that one who sees a certain attraction about you and will think it worthwhile making the first approach. Then at least, you will have the advantage. It will then be up to you to impress but don't overdo it. Be yourself, give off a fairly confident air and the lady, all being well, will be yours!Good luck mate.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 November 2008): Personally, I'm not a believer in online dating. I think you need to meet someone in person to really get to know them, and for them to get to know you. Go to the pub or a local gathering and try and meet someone new face to face. It's easier to tell if they're your type, and to get an honest impression of them (as well as giving them an honest one of you!)
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