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*babi22
writes:Hey! Me and my boyfriend have been together for a month now and we care about each other a lot. But he is going to go to jail for about 3 months and he wants me to wait for him.I want to wait for him but I'm afraid I might get over him just like I got over my ex that went off to jail. Three months is a long time. I don't mind waiting.... but I just don't know if it will be the same once he comes back. He also said that if we break up then he wouldn't come back to me unless it's a good reason to because we've dated once before so it's our 2nd time around.What should I do?
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reader, aunty_rach  +, writes (16 November 2008):
Don't wait around for someone!If you really like him, maybe say to him when he comes out you will see how you feel and if you want to get back with him then fine. but don't do dating jail time for him. you shouldn't suffer just because he did something wrong. i know that sounds harsh, but at the end of the day you are more important then he is. plus you seem really young, so you shouldn't commit yourself to someone at that age. you should be having fun and enjoying yourself.
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reader, michele21 +, writes (16 November 2008):
 well how old is this boy?? why is he going to jail?? well your profile age says 13-15 so i think your too young to even know what you want right now you don't need to go down the path of hanging with these losers sweety once they go to jail once there is a 80% chance they gonna be in and out of jail for awhile....find you someone better that actually has goals in there life
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (16 November 2008):
Well long distance can be the big test of relationships.
Give it a go and agree to take it a week at a time. If you get over him then be honest and tell him.
If you don't then it's love and he will be worth waiting for waiting for when he comes out.
I take it that you are all fine with whatever crime he committed to get put away? You seem very young to be dating criminals.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, helpjayne +, writes (16 November 2008):
 Find a guy that doesn't get into trouble? if you really like him and you think he's really good to you what's 3 months you can spend 3 month's with your friends having fun, or maybe you could suggest an open relationship while he's in jail just to make sure that he's the one, if he's special enough you won't forget him, you'l be thinking of him constantly if hes the guy for you.i hope i could help x
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