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male
age
51-59,
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writes:my wife had an affair. she will not admit to this. she told me that she will not explain things that have happened. she tells my children i am ill mentally. my son and her stole my dna test results, she got me to the doctors and had me put on pills. all she says to me is u need mental help. she mutters at me and if i question any thing i get mentally abused my children who think i am ill. she turns everything on to me. i have had this problem for 18 years and its gotten worse. she flaunts what she does under my nose then tells people to take no notice of me because i am paranoid. everything she says is a lie, then she denies that she has said this and blames it on me. i think shes still living her childhood, as this is how she was brougt up. what can i do? is this is mental cruelty?
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 November 2008): yeh sounds bad, get prof help and get their opinion...but does sound like she is off her trolley ( nuts) NOT YOU.
Men can be abused its not just women who suffer...so get help and advice....look on the net and see what you think.
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reader, KSnider  +, writes (17 November 2008):
To me it sounds like your wife is putting you down to make you think you cant do any better. I would ask her to attend marriage conselling with you. If she doesn't want to do that hire a private investigator to see what she is up too... why she is so hurtful to you... It sounds like what she is doing to you as well as your children would be considered abuse of some sort.
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (16 November 2008):
You can't just "get someone put on pills" You must have let her come to the doctors with you and verbally agreed for her to be in the consultation and then had some symptoms bad enough for the doctor to believe what she was saying.
I very much doubt that she is keeping you prisoner so why not go out, go back to the doctors and let him assess you on your own. He will be able to tell you if there is anything wrong with you.
Other than that, why don't you leave? If you are working then get a place of your own, or go back to your parents.
There is nothing keeping you there apart from your responsibility to your children. As long as you are seeing them and providing for them, you don't have to be in the same house.
Good Luck!! xx
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