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writes:I'm a big girl and my boyfriend loves my curves and has asked me to dress up sexy in stockings and a basque and I'm worried as soon as I walk into a shop that sells them, people are thinking ew look at her trying to be sexy, and I get this feeling every time that I walk into any clothes shop but this time it's goint to be 10 times worse. I'd really love to dress up sexy for my boyfriend because I know it would make me feel so confident but like I get all these things running through my head like what if they don't have my size and I would order them online only. I live with my mum and that would be kind of embarrassing. So anyone know of any possible way I could get these sexy things and not humiliate myself?Any one know of any plus size sexy shops? Just in case they don't have my size. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 November 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthankyou very much!!!and i will do :)xxxxx
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reader, howcomehoney  +, writes (16 November 2008):
 What are you talking about? People in shops are there to sell things. The reason clothes come in different sizes is because women come in different sizes. And curvy women look WAY better in basques than skinny women - get a corset, it will nip in your waist and emphasise all your beautiful curves. And that is HOT.
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reader, shandy88 +, writes (16 November 2008):
Hi Hun, Firstly, if you have found a guy that likes you just the way you are and your comfortable with the way you look then screw anybody else! even if you walked in to a shop and people were saying that about you the likelyhood of you ever seeing them again is very slim so just go for it! My suggestion if your still not that comfortable would be to buy some hold ups, you can get them from M and S or la senza, thats a really easy way to sex things up a bit without feeling too awkward about buying them! if you have a matching black set of undies with the hold ups he will not know where to start! :) Let me know how you get on hun, and dont be embarassed! just go for it!!x.x.x.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 November 2008): Have a look on the Ann Summers website. I've just had a look, and they say they do Basque's up to size 24, so I should think they'll have them in the shops up to that size.
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