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30-35,
*heekymonky
writes:Why is she so selfish? One of my family members keeps going on about how old she is and it's not cool to spend time with her brother, all she does is cause arguments between my family and her boyfriend. She is so selfish she orders people about and she has this new found confidence that she don't need to help her family, however when she wants help it's a different matter. She has things too easy. In my life I have had to overcome a lot, she has overcome one thing instead of making the best for herself she just accepts things the way they are and she even thinks she can control who I chat to and whether I should bring up past memories and I'm like who IS she?! I love her dearly but I just wish she would be a part of our family again and work with us rather than against us.
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reader, birdynumnums  +, writes (17 November 2008):
 Well, you can choose your friends but you can't choose your family. I just lost a brother who was quite a bit like this, and I still miss him dearly. Sometimes it's easier to bite your tongue and go along to get along. In the end, you'll know that you have behaved decently, even if she is running roughshod all over everyone else. And sometimes, putting on a big front is something that people hide behind. Time may take care of it and you might be able to see eye to eye once again. Good Luck my friend.
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