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writes:Hey, I'm 15, umm last night I was looking after my little brother and my younger sister who were both upstairs sleeping. I came downstairs to wait until my dad and step mum got home and my older brother (17) was watching tv so I decided to watch it with him and then he came over and told me to touch his penis so I said no and he had just split up with his gf so I think he was upset. I went upstairs to go to sleep but he kept on calling me so I put my headphones on, but he came into my room and took my arm and pulled me out.I told him to stop and that I was tired and he started rubbing my vagina so I told him to stop then he kept saying how could I want to walk away from this. He then took out his penis and pulled down my bottoms. I didn't want to shout because I didn't want to wake anyone then he started having sex with me after I kept saying stop but I was confused at the same time because at the same time I kinda liked it but now I don't know what to do because every time I enter a room he keeps staring at me, I don't know what to do any more. He even told me he's gonna do this anytime he wants and asked if I would let him! What if I'm pregnant? help
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 June 2009): i got raped last year by my bro in law and i was so scared to tell anyone in my family about it. finally i told my cousin sister after 2 months. trust me if u tell someone you will feel alot beta. it will take time to gt ova it and hopefully u will. look at me its been a year and i stil get nightmares about the whole situation.
gud luck al the best
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reader, littlegurl13012  +, writes (19 November 2008):
 u should go to ur father or some one u trust because that is rape and u should not let it go on any more then it has u need to tell some one tha was rape and its understanding that u liked it in some why but u do need to let some one know before it gets any worse and u should go and get check to see if u are pregnent if your worried about it. You shouldn't let your self be alone in the house with him. i know i wouldnt i would be to scared to be alone with him even alone in a different room then every one else. god bless u hun i hope we all are helping u in some way
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reader, OnewingedAngel +, writes (18 November 2008):
That is a growing, HORRIBLE situation. Your feelings of liking it in some way ARE understandable. Don't feel bad. EITHER WAY, he completely forced himself onto you, there is a term for that. Don't allow it any further. He needs his ass kicked. It's going to be painful but tell someone you trust and ensure it ends. GOOD LUCK and BLESS YOU (I'm not even religious.)
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 November 2008): Tell ur father right away,u got raped,he needs help.Do both of yall a favor and tell ur father and the police,they'll make sure it dosesn't happen again.
hope this helped.Take care of yoursel
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 November 2008): I've been talking to someone who has been in exactly in the same situation your in. A few months on, and the person has been a victim of serious violence, has been pregnant and the situation is generally out of control.The police cannot do anything without evidence - and by this time the evidence would've probably been destroyed from inside of you - but I suggest that you talk to your parents if you feel comfortable with it. Unfortunately this is a serious situation that needs to end as soon as possible before he tries 2 find out how much power and control he has over you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 November 2008): Hi.
First, I am really sorry this has happened to you. You must call the police, or tell your school counselor IMMEDIATELY. He will continue. If you are his first victim, he will keep on raping girls, so by reporting him you are doing both of you a favor. Get counseling.
I was raped by a family member too, and it has really affected my relationships. I never told anyone when it could have stopped him, and now I regret it. He went on to rape a cousin of mine, when I moved out of the house. Don't keep quiet. Please. Protect your self and others by reporting him.
Check this two out:
800.656.HOPE or online.rainn.org
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 November 2008): God Bless You. Everything will be okay. Do the right thing and report him. There is evil in this world..don't let it decieve you. Sometimes people let evil in their hearts..don't let him take advantage of you. Be STRONG. I wish only the best for you. I will pray for you girly.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 November 2008): You have done a great thing by telling your father! I hope your step brother is out of the house now! If not, Next time when your step brother attempt to do anything of that sort, SHOUT! Shout as loud as you can, scream, do whatever you can to get others attention to you. Your safety comes first! And make sure you are not left alone in the house where he can come and trouble you.
Please take care of your self!
God bless you sweetie!
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 November 2008): do not think that you are to blame here- no means no, and when you are forced out of a room, you are clearly unwilling. your body may have responded in a way that leads you to believe that you may have liked it, but thats a natural reaction. this does not mean you wanted it or that you are a bad person. at 15 you cannot anticipate how much this will hurt you emotionally. be safe, get help. reach out.
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reader, aunty_rach +, writes (16 November 2008):
ok sweetie for a starter you need to tell your parents then you need to tell the police. he needs to be punished for what he did and he needs to learn that he can't get what he wants!
also he sounds like he needs help, being that he wants to have a sexual relationship with a family member.
but seriously you need to tell someone, before he does it again.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 November 2008): He should be kicked out of the house, if he raped one of his own family members, he is a threat.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 November 2008): No problm sweetie, we're here to help=)
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reader, helpjayne +, writes (16 November 2008):
 NO means no, he had no right to do what he did, and you make me so sad when you said you were guna shout but you didn't wana wake anyone up. If that happens again shout, it's your body, your rules, he can't just get what he wants off you through force, what he did was rape. It can be kinda hard to tell your parents these things so if your not ready to then thats ok but doctors are confidential go get yourself checked out. You may have kinda liked it but the point is you should be the one deciding when where and who you have it with, don't feel pressured into anything hunni don't let him make you feel guilty. if you don't wana have it tell him you'll tell somebody what he did to you. i suggest you tell the more understanding parent about this. maybe talk to a really close friend about it somebody that can be there for you because you might be feeling confused and hurt and disrespected.xi hope any of that helpedgo to the doctors asap
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 November 2008): I'm gonna tell my dad thanks and my dad wants him out of the house but thanks for the advice.
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reader, Teacake +, writes (16 November 2008):
 You MUST tell your father about this. It is his duty to protect you. This boy has problems and he needs to be put in his place. Hopefully this will not cause problems in his marriage, but YOUR FATHERS FIRST OBLIGATION is to YOU!
This boy needs to live with his father and get out of your home. He might do this to the other children too.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 November 2008): You really need to tell your parents about this. He has no right in the world to have you do such a thing...even if you 'kinda' like it.
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