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writes: I was skate boarding with my girlfriend yesterday . She was wearing a tube top. I kept offering my hoodie to her top cause her looked like it going to fall down. Well I trip on something and I grabbed the first thing I could her tube top. It came right down and she wasn't wearing a bra, Some of my friends were there to and laughed they'll heads (I'm guilty too). She hasn't said a word to me since then. What do I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, SirenaBlusera  +, writes (18 November 2008):
 If you laughed at her with all your "cuates" (Mexican word for mates), she went to the bathroom in tears while you laughed, I'm sorry man, but you're lucky all she broke was your heart.
She's probably thinking, "Why look good for a guy who's just humiliated me in front of everyone?" That was really immature of you. The solution to your problem is simple, you need to swallow your pride and say, hey, I screwed up, will you forgive me? On your knees. Have you done this, and have you admitted to her that you were wrong?
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 November 2008): Did you understand us at all?All of us are telling you the same thing.you deserve to get dumped.If I were the girl I wouldn't even want to look at you again.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 November 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionOK I left some stuff out (sorry). After I pull down her top one of my frienda was like " nice tites". My girlfriend went to bathroom in tears. Her friends furious with me (they were too). One of her mates was with her. The other two were pretty much just yelling at me (they think I desevre to get dumped) . Turns out my gf tries really hard too impress me.
She usally dresses like a tomboy. When I saw her at school. She was in baggy in clothes (she use to wear that stuff before we started dating) she didnt pay much attenion to me. Are we breaking up?
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reader, SirenaBlusera +, writes (16 November 2008):
In what state do you guys live? It's November, and it's freezing here in NC, and most of the country, I imagine... what in the world was she doing wearing a tube top????
Accidents happen, but your "crime" is that you laughed at her. You did not act like a gentleman. I'm sorry to be mean but to laugh at your girlfriend's humiliation, you behaved like a rude pig. I don't blame her for being pissed off at you. Not for the accident, but for laughing at her. You could have covered her up.
I'm not trying to be mean, just to get you to imagine how she must be feeling. What's done is done, though. I would apologize... you should bring her flowers and turn over a new leaf from here on out.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 November 2008): Goodness Emily!What a fantastic answer!!
If you hadn't laughed at her and hugged her to cover her up from your friends eyes it would have been a different story.It would take her a long time to get over this traumatic incident.If I were you I would apologize for being so callous and not pressure her into coming back.She deserves better.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 November 2008): Yeah, i agree with emily answers, you need to go to her with chocolate and peace offerings!
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (16 November 2008):
I'm not surprised, it's horrible feeling being exposed but then you laughed at her as well.
To everyone including her it will look like you did it on purpose.
She only wore it to look good for you, and you make a million comments and then pulled it down.
Even if it was an accident, I certainly wouldn't forgive you. I think you might have lost her. Unless you go round on your knees with flowers and make sure that your mates never say a word about it again then I doubt she'll speak to you again.
Good Luck!! xx
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