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AmIi weird and silly being too available for him?

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Question - (16 November 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 16 November 2008)
A female United States age 36-40, *ranhquy writes:

There is a guy in my class; I don't know why he hates me ; I'm the only one in class he's mean to. I help him alot in homework even the subjects that I don't have with him. I help him even I'm really busy with my own homework. Nevertheless, when I ask him for him, he shows he's busy and doesn't want to help me. I like talking to people in class( including him) and tutor them in homework. Nevertheless, my actions make him think that I'm too available for him and people. He says I'm crazy,annoyed, ungly and only blind people like me. Now I'm feeling very sad and silly ;why he's so mean to me when I try to be nice and friendly to him and everyone,

Do you think he calls me crazy since I'm too "available" for him and everybody? Am I silly when being too open to people like that?

Ps: One night he called me and asked me to do a hard problem in his Math class; he said he wanted me to finish it and bring it to him tomorrow. Although i was busy, but i did it too.

We're in college now.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (16 November 2008):

He is using you, you need to break away from this guy because you really deserve better. You sound like a really good hearted person, so don't let this guy abuse that. If you help him, you should expect the same back.

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