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writes: HELP!!I'm still in love with my ex who I was with for 2 years. Currently have a GF who been with for few months now and I do like her. What should I do! My ex also told me she loves me stil and she got a partner too...
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 July 2008): I can relate to this. I have the same problem with my ex. Here's the thing, be careful around your ex and current girlfriend. Try to let your ex know you still have feelings for here but do it a friendly yet very careful way. Also to keep things nice between you two , talk to each other every now and then. Keep it totally innocent around everyone and most of the time. Try meeting up sometimes and hang out. If you guys know in your hearts that you want to still be with each other, then I say go for it. You have to be happy, and do what's best for you and your ex. So all in all, let your partners down easy and then try to form a friendship. Even though they say they love you, you have to be with who you need and want, or you will be constantly be wishing you were with them. Hope i helped!!!!!!!!
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reader, lexilou +, writes (2 July 2008):
Sometimes we want what we cant have and you could find that once you dump your girlfriend the ex wont be interested any more or she may genuinely want you back.
Decide if the current girl is worth hanging on to, if you really like her and want to make it work then try. If not then get out of this relationship but wait for a few weeks before contacting this other girl. I wish you luck x
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reader, sexi suga +, writes (2 July 2008):
to be honest if both of you still have feelings for each other its really not fair on your current partners to be pushed into in the middle of you two. Before getting together with someone you should have given time to get over your ex and thats probs what it was. however i think honesty is the best policy. First of all talk to your ex and tell her how you feel and get it into the open. once you are sure that she is who you want tell your current partner the truth. they will appreicate it more (trust me) yehh they maybe mad for messing around with even when you still had feelings for your ex but in the long run she will understand :)
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