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writes:I am aged 49 and wondered what you think of me potentially seeing /going out with a man who I know goes out with other women and I know he has sex with "because he is a free agent" (in his words and "doesnt want a relationship" in his words) so I know he is honest but would I be a fool to accept these terms?My friend at work says I would be barmy becasue it would mean he would only want me for sex and I would never know when I saw him again or anything?What are your views please
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 July 2008): Vow, NO NO, this aint going to bring you any happiness;
Do yourself a favour; go and stand in front of the mirror; have a good look at yourself; tell yourself how much you LOVE yourself; Vow, you deserve better; why would you even consider sharing a guy with other women?
Do you really think you cannot do better then this guy? No, I don't think so; but if that is the case; get going start working on the self image and self love; "kick" this guy out of your life; the next time he contacts you, make it very clear that you are not available and not interested; do not listen to his stories or buy his "oh, let us be friends" nonsens; move on, and avoid this guy completely; he is going to hurt you "BIG TIME";
I am sure you want somebody to love, respect and cherish you; you are not going to get it from this guy;
Get out there, find somebody that you can have a loving, caring and stable relationship with; trust me thare are many guys out there looking for the same;
Be strong; look in the mirror and yes, give yourself a "SMILE"
Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 July 2008): It depends on what YOU want, not what he wants. Do you want to be loved and cherished? Do you want to be used and abused? Choice is yours.
He is clear on what he wants, a man does not say this unless he means it.....HE WILL NOT CHANGE HIS MIND. You cannot love him enough to make him 'see the light'.
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reader, ChiRaven  +, writes (2 July 2008):
 What do YOU want?
If you're after something short term with a lot of sweaty sheets, this is probably a great chance to get it. If this guy has a lot going for him, chances are he's probably pretty good at it. If you're willing to settle for a quick fling or even a longer term as "friends with benefits", then by all means grab him.
Assuming you're looking for something more permanent, this guy is poison. Stay away from him at all costs. He will try to hook you, and if you let him get close there is some reasonable chance that he will succeed in spite of your resolve to the contrary. You may say "no" now, but I've seen such things happen all to often in people in the 50+ age group.
I'm dating in that age group myself right now (I'm 64, but have dated women as young as 47 ... my sister's age ... and as old as 69), and you'd be AMAZED at some of the things that are going on!
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reader, michhhh babyx +, writes (2 July 2008):
obviously, if he is a "free agent" hes basically telling you he only wants to "get some" and im sure he would care a lot about you, but in the end he is only in it to have sex. if he wanted a relationship he wouldnt have said that. i suggest you move on, because this guy will break your heart for sure, he will love you, and leave you. move on! be with a guy who wouldnt want to share you, and wouldnt want to be with any other girls but you, thats what you deserve
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