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writes:Alrighty, I'd rather give help then ask for it. I'm usually not very open. But at htis point i don't have a clue what to do or what I'm feeling.I've known this guy literally from kindergarden. We went to the same school for about 4 years. Then i moved to a close state and he moved farther in the other state than before. We eventually lost contact. (I know I'm dragging this out just plz bear with me) Before we left we were allowed to see each other one last time (at this age i was ten and so was he) We were sitting on the side of the hill when i told him i liked him. He returned saying he liked me as well. Being ten we didn't do anything about it. Just saying we liked each other was enough to make my day. Now im 15 and he will be 15 soon, and we just got back in contact with each other and it was like we never left. Everything was so amazing, we changed. But we changed in the same direction if that makes any sense what so ever. We both like the same things and want to be close again. But im starting to get lots of feelings i just don't understand. Me and this guy still live far away. Not far enough to make it impossible to see him. ust highly unlikely. The thing that makes me confused is idk if he likes me to. Idk what I'm feeling and frankly I don't think i wanna know. The kid is like a brother to me and yet so... SOOOOOOO much more. Idk what I'm feeling. So ifyou have any ideas or opinions. I would appreciate your input. Thank you Reply to this Question
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reader, LilzDon'tKnow +, writes (2 July 2008):
LilzDon'tKnow is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thank you guys soooooo much for your answers and when i said i didn't wanna know i ment that if i did find out i love him its gonna be harder not to tell him, But that you guys very much I'm seeing him soo and I'll let you guys know what happens :)
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reader, no_issues +, writes (2 July 2008):
 Consider the lessons of porn.
In porn, if you have confusing feelings about someone, you try kissing them. If you both like it, then you proceed from there. If you don't like it.... porn is a little unclear on that scenario, but generally you decide to be just friends and literally within about 15 seconds someone else comes along.
Porn also teaches us that the cops are prepared at any time to have sex with entire cars full of motorists, which turns out to not actually be true in all cases. So be warned.
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reader, dangerouslove. +, writes (2 July 2008):
 What do you mean you have no idea what your feeling? What your feeling is how much you miss this boy that you've known your whole life. All the feelings you use to have for him, rushed like a wave and came right back! Is that considered a bad thing? In my opinion it's not! By the sounds of things, he missed you just as much as you missed him, and obviously likes you too! Talk to your parents, ask to go see him, or see if he can come see you. Girl, I know it seems like a long ways away .. but these are the people, you usually end up marrying. I'm kind of confused and I don't know why you stated in your post, "Idk what I'm feeling and frankly I don't think i wanna know"Why don't you want to know? it sounds like you have a good thing going for you, appreciate it.Good luck.Keep me updated.:)
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reader, lexilou  +, writes (2 July 2008):
 Well besides the fact that youre hormones are raging at your age, you have known this guy forever and are pleased to have him back in your life. You think about him all the time and dont know what you feel, you see similarities between you and think he's amazing. Sounds a lot like love to me!! x
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (2 July 2008):
Right, I'm just going to take a look inside your brain....
Um, no one can tell you how you feel. But at your age your feelings are all over the place anyway.
Go and see him and see what happens!!
Good Luck!! xx
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