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anonymous
writes:Im 15, and I am dating this guy that is 16.He is the only guy I like, so I really dont feel like dating other guys.However, he is dating one other girl.I really really really like him, and he did say that there is a chance that this thing between us could turn into a relationship, but it could also happen with the other girl he's dating.I've liked him for 5months now, and I only told him one and a half months ago, and he told me how he felt about me and it turns out he started liking me 6months ago, so he has liked me longer but he never really had the guts until a month ago.We have been dating since then and it is coming upto 2months.Im jus really scared that he's going to pick the other girl over me, I've never dated any guys before and I've never been in a relationship or anything.He is my first, but I'm not his first.I haven't seen him for 3 weeks and the first week he kept telling me how he misses me and I used to call him.But he has lost his fone and so we haven't spoken for 2weeks and he doesn't even speak online anymore,I somehow feel as though he is now interested in the other girl more.We haven't kissed or anything, we've just been going on dates and flirting abit.Should I wait around and see what happens?I dont really know what I am supposed to do as this is new to me?Thank You x
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 July 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThankyou so much!
Your advice really did help Male-Anonymous.
He has started to talk alot on IM now,
I know that he has certainly lost his phone,
I'm just gonna take things really slow and see how I feel about him,
We are meeting up tomorrow so I'll see how things go then :)
thanks alot x
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 July 2008): Hey,I'm a guy... so from a guys perspective? If he stops talking to u (like on the cell, and im, especially im), lose him quick. He's just hangin on, if the other girl drops him. U'r not gonna believe me, i know, u WANT him to like u, 'cause it works for you, but seriously, if he's interested, he'll come after you. Oh, and the cardinal rule, a guy will say ANYTHING to get some. Remember that ALWAYS.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 July 2008): Wow, this must be difficult for you, now I have never been in a relationship myself so I can't say I know how it feels, but you can't get too paranoid, maybe he just wants to keep offline for a bit, but if he does pick the other girl, don't get too upset, you'll find someone, who will always be with you, and will be with you without dating someone else, I am not judging this (obviously) because I don't know you or your boyfriend and I don't know the situation, but maybe you can talk to a friend or something.
Good Luck with everything and hope everything works out
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