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Missed pills... can she be pregnant???

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Question - (30 December 2008) 5 Answers - (Newest, 30 December 2008)
A male United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

My girlfriend has been on the pill for 2 years. Two weekends ago we went on vacation and she forgot her pills, so she didn't take them for 3 days. During those 3 days we didn't use condoms but I tried my best to pull out before ejaculating (a couple times I wasn't fast enough so I got some in her, but never the entire load).

We weren't too worried about it because she was taking her pills regularly up until the day before we left, and resumed immediately when we returned. However she was supposed to get her period around the 26 and still hasn't gotten it. It's been 4 days and we're starting to get worried.... Could she really be pregnant? Or could she just be late because of stress?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (30 December 2008):

Thanks for your help.. We may just have to talk to a doctor about it. He also has acute phimosis, so his foreskin doesn't retract completely when his penis is erect.. Maybe that also effects it in some way. Although almost all his ejaculate still goes inside me, so I guess the problem is something else, either having to do with him or me.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (30 December 2008):

Dude, can't anyone post a question on this site without getting a rude response?? I obviously know we were irresponsible, what happened happened and I don't need to hear your preaching about it. I asked a simple question, and all you need to do is answer it. Leave your rude remarks elsewhere.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (30 December 2008):

You were really irresponsible. And it's likely she's because of that. I wouldn't rely on her periods now as an accurate sign of pregnancy because missing those fews pills messed up her hormones - she probably had a bleed around the missed pills because of the hormone withdrawal. Get a pregnancy test.

And learn a lesson for next time.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (30 December 2008):

We honestly didn't think it'd be that big a deal because she had been taking the pills regularly for such a long time before and picked up when we got back. We figured it'd still be in her system for those 3 days. Plus it was our anniversary that weekend and we didn't want to kill the romance with condoms, especially since we don't normally use them.

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A female reader, aunty_rach United Kingdom +, writes (30 December 2008):

there is a possibility. best do a test.

what i dont understand is that you both knew she didn't have her pills, but you still didn't use a condom?!? that's crazy!

pulling out does not mean that she cant get pregnant. do you know that on the tip of your penis there are already millions of sperm (precum) sure it don't shoot out, but it still enters her.

i think you both should have been more responsible.

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