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writes:I am a 18 year old asian boy and I love a boy who is 13 .we are same sex and we love each other.But the other people don't accept it and want to forbid it.He is a dependent and live with his elder siblings.They are controlling him everything.I really love him .I don't want to forgo him.We would relocate to US soon.How can i solve it? and how can we go our way through difficulties? Reply to this Question
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reader, cherie38  +, writes (18 January 2009):
let him grow up first and get to the legal age limit! if you love him as much as you say you do then you will wait for him! then go for it if it is what you both want! x
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reader, scorpian lady +, writes (11 January 2009):
he is only 13! this is too young for you to be expecting any 'grown up' adult relationship. Let him grow up first and then if he is gay and he wants you, then go ahead.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 December 2008): The boy is underage which is why everyone will be disagreeing with this relationship. I'm sure if I'd gotten with an 18 year old at that age my parents would be so protective and upset with this result as you are six years different to him which is a massive difference. How would you feel if this was your own child? Until you become a parent you won't understand the pain a parent can go through when this happens to there own child and they won't believe you love him. This 13 year old boy probably doesn't even know what love is yet and I'd advise you just stay friends for the time being until he has gotten a bit older. My advice again is wait till hes sixteen and then you'll realise if you both love each other and people will start to accept you if you can hold on that long but the chances are this boy won't as he is just a kid. He has just become a teenager and a very young one at it. He may act older this his age but he really is just a child do you really want a conscience that you were in a relationship with a child?
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reader, katatonik  +, writes (30 December 2008):
 At 13 years old he is considered underage in most countries and probably yours as well. If you want to pursue a relationship with him, you will have to wait until he is of legal age to consent to one. It's that simple. Relocating to the US is not an immediate solution to your problem, either--you can't legally have an intimate relationship with a 13-year-old here either. The only advice I can give you is to wait until this boy is no longer a child and proceed from there if both of you are still interested. Good luck.
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