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writes:Hey, I've got a problem and are looking for a solution. Maybe here I can get some help?I had a wonderful relationship but all of a sudden my partner became weird, didn't talk as openly to me as he did before, started to draw back. Then he broke up in a really painful way. Had a 'friend' who is a practicing sadist and who obviously manipulated him a lot. I managed to build up a friendship with him again, he writes every day, we talk on the phone and see each other now and then. I still love him deeply and every time I see him he's got tears in his eyes. I want to have a relationship with him again but I don't really know how to get there without putting any pressure on him. I'd like to get him to take the first steps. How can I do this?
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 January 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI know you want to help and I appreciate that you wrote a respond here but as I said before I already talked to him, not just once. I have no problem with being open and honest but I noticed that it's not gonna work. I need a different approach.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 December 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for your answer but i already talked to him a while ago and realized no matter how sensitive i am about this, it won't work that way. that's what i meant with not putting pressure on him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 December 2008): you should seriously talk 2 him about it, i know it takes alot of courage to do that, but if you reali love this guy then you will do it
let him know your situation and how ure feelin
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