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anonymous
writes:my question is why does my boyfriend keep asking me for money? he says he needs help paying rent. hes got a job i think? not unless hes been kicked out of work and not bothered to tell me? sometimes its £100 or £300. i told him all this money begging has to stop.but it hasnt.im thinking of leaving him pretty soon.hes running me dry!
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2009): thank you all for the advice!I think its best I stay away from this creep!x
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reader, roadman +, writes (31 December 2008):
 get going he damaging your weath!!!!GEt some one who will invest in you!
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reader, Deema +, writes (30 December 2008):
 Run, Run, run. You know nothing about him yet you are feeding him all this money. What kind of relationship is that? You obvioulsy need to be needed and are desperate to find someone, but its not HIM. You deserve someone far better than that, someone who respects you and wants you for you, not your money. He's only going to break your heart. Get out now while you can, or you'll never be free of him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 December 2008): You don't know whether he's got a job or not, yet you're lending him large sums of money? What kind of relationship is this? I'll tell you - it's no kind of relationship.
You need to ask him a good few questions by the look of it, one of which would be "When are you going to pay me back?". Certainly don't lend him any more. His rent or whatever he's wasting money on wasn't your problem, but is now because you're a soft touch. It sounds like he's using you as a cash cow. Let him beg all he likes - but no more 'loans' eh? No doubt he'll claim you were giving him money rather than lending it to him so you have to make that point pretty darned quick.
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (30 December 2008):
I doubt he's ever going to give you the cash back and he's going to keep asking so next time he does it just dump him.
Good Luck!! xx
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