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writes:I'm 14, there's this boy i used to like in my primary school,(started all in year 5) he was nice one year, next year i guess hormones kicked in didn't like me much he done one of them hate things, were he totally hated my guts, swore and said many evil things to hurt my feelings, so i done the same back, but mostly i just bugged him and annoyed him not much of the swearing (as i could have got grounded or something for foul language at that time in life) other times he would stare at me in the far distance, which actually bugged me, I liked it at times as I liked him, but then outside I didn’t show it, I used to act like I really hated him doing that, but then he was even more weird, he’d stare at me and then say what to me, like as if I was staring at him first when I wasn’t. What I really hated about him for real was he made me cry several times and I could tell he meant it for real, and he was good looking and I was an idiot for falling for him, and I hated him for being good looking because not only was I the only one to like him but there were a lot of others who did as well. He had a charm that made my mates even like him; errrrr, then he showed all the sign of liking me but then along side led on another girl in my class who I got on with well, a way to make me jealous. Then it came to the point were I was fed up, and left it and forgot it all. As I grew older I realised at that age it happens a lot but really the person likes you. Basically it’s a boy thing. Now what the problem is, were in secondary school, we go to different ones and on the way going and coming back I see him on the way to school and it’s annoying cause he keeps staring at me again argh I feal like screaming. I see him and he smiles, stares, turn back after walked past me. Goes past and whispers underneath his breath to his mate and looks at me, and what’s more weird is I don’t even know his mates and they go past me and smile as if I know them, and then talk again underneath there breath, at times I’vee realised him and his mates look at what way I go home, and then few times, he’s behind me when I’m going home and he goes normally another way but some reason came my way home. It takes him same time both ways. Last day of school and I want a different route because I wanted to go back to primary school see the teachers, and when he comes back from school I’ve realised he goes through my road he was about to go straight on my road but turned in my direction and crossed the road as well right behind me. What’s all this? :S confused? If he does like me, how can I tell him to leave me alone? I really want to focus on my school work and not a boy any advice? (this is because I’m doing my GCSE’s not all some)
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 December 2008): Thanks, just one last question does it sound like he likes me? is it worth giving him a try?, i do like him but i'm a lil worried.
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reader, katatonik  +, writes (30 December 2008):
 If you don't want his attention then ignoring him is probably the best way to resolve this. All of the outrageous things he does are almost certainly to get your attention, and when you let it get to you or are bothered by it or even seem to notice what he is doing you are reinforcing his behavior by giving him the attention he is looking for. As long as he thinks following you around and staring at you is going to get you to pay attention to him, he will keep doing it. Pretend he isn't there or doing any of this stuff and I would be very surprised if he doesn't quit doing it soon afterward. Good luck =]
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