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writes: Ok, I'll start off by saying that I easily get paranoid and self concious, though not near as bad as I used too.I have been in a relationship for a couple months and she and I have already told each other we love each other. Anyways Christmas was hectic with a trip of hers to the city she just moved from placed right in the middle. Halfway through the trip she started texting me less and after she got back still seemed to like hugs and kisses, but not as often and initiated less then she normally did, the only time we have hung out since is to take care of her horse, with her family or car rides in between. just doesn't feel like quality time together. Is she just settling into a long term relationship? or slowly losing interest?I am a believer of "just talk to her about it" but its hard. My first relationship by the way.Thank you all alot
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reader, 89th +, writes (30 December 2008):
89th is verified as being by the original poster of the questionNow that you mention it, I may have not been as romantic lately because of all the x-mas stuff and work stuff stress. I'm gunna make a point to get together with her in a place we can both be alone and focus and talk.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 December 2008): I know it's hard to talk. But you need to talk to her. She cant fix it if she doesnt know you all have a problem. Are you still as romantic with her as you were before she went on vacation?
My boyfriend and I, we're 18, have been dating for about 5 months. At first he'd leave me sweet messages on my messenger and I loved it. The last month of 2 he's almost completely stopped doing that. So I've been leaving him messages instead.
Take the initiative. Do sweet things for her and talk to her.
I'm my boyfriends first relationship too!!
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