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male
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Well im in a bit of a predicament you see, It all started about 2 weeks ago at a friends party where i started speaking to a friends friend and we swapped phone numbers and began texting (well she texts me everyday) but i found out she has a boyfriend of a few months. but then i saw her at another party where her boyfriend was there and we were both drunk and she started kissing me and i went along with it (luckily we didnt get caught). then i saw here again lst night and we went for a drive and we kissed and held each other for an hour or so but that was it. And i am feeling REALLY guilty that we did even that when she has a boyfriend, that she 'says' she doesnt really care about, but i am starting to think otherwise. Anyway i have tried ignoring her texts but she will send me multiple texts then i text back out of guilt. She is a really nice girl who i know likes me alot as she tells my friend everything. I am not even really looking for a relationship at the minute but i havnt got the guts to say no and i must say i do enjoy the extra attention. But i dont want to go any further than this if she has a boyfriend. Has anybody got any advice? Thanks
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reader, pink-frog  +, writes (30 December 2008):
if she likes you like your saying right now then she would have broken up with her boyfriend a long time ago and if you like her a lot you say that shes really nice im sorry but she sounds like a hoe to me she kisses you wile she dating someone else im not trying to be mean but this is kinda making me mad i dont know you you or anything and i alsow dont know your friend so i cant really say anything bad about her so sorry for saying she was a hoe k anyways think what ive told you so far k really think about it
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (30 December 2008):
Right you have to get a little bit stronger and deal with this rather than just letting her molest / get a quick ego boost from you.
Tell her that you want to be with her and you want her to either split up with her boyfriend or to stop messing you about.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, jessinit +, writes (30 December 2008):
Oh my god! For once a boy feels bad for something like this, if she's bad enough to kiss you it means either of two things; one she really likes you, or two she's a bad egg. She could do the same to you if you get together, play it cool, do what you think is right and say no!
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