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writes:I cant help but feel like my life is a cycle. Allow me to go further last year ended with me miserable as a girl I had feelings for ends up not just rejecting me and deciding staying friends was no longer acceptable but does so in a rude and terrible manner that was completely out of the blue and seemed to be for no reason at least none that I can find. This year the exact same. Last year my families health was getting worse, this year it continutes to do so (by health I mean things outside their control illnesses like alzhymers, ms and cancer). Now this isnt just these past 2 years it's been going on as long as I can remember of course there also the other problems I generally get hit a lot by drunk idiots (wrong place wrong time problem for me). I have been a generally nice person during my life I donate to charity regularly, I donate blood when I can and I once saved a little kids life (drunk mother, kid ranaway you can probably paint the picture for yourself) I never talk about these things because I dont like sounding as if Im up my own arse and yet I see people all the time who are living the exact opposite, people who dont have these worries and are completely arrogant assholes(I mean that people who bully me for being better at the subject we are studying in university). Now I know people will say it could be a lot worse and I agree but that just sounds like a lazy answer yes they can but they could be a lot fairer too. But anyway is there anything that's causing this cycle? Is it just bad luck? Why should I look on the positive side when things dont change?
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 December 2008): Hi mate, well by the sounds of it all these things are out of your control so all you can do is make the best out a difficult situation, I can assure you most poeple go through patches like this multiple times in there life but a down the line you will smile. Some people are better at masking it than others. And by the sounds of it you sound like a nice guy so any girl that would do that to you doesnt deserve you. your only young go out and find another one!
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 December 2008): So you made a couple of bad picks in choosing a girlfriend. Be grateful those relationships ended when they did. I would recommend really looking at why you choose those girls. Ask yourself what you are really looking for in a girl and the qualities you want and those you will not tolerate. Do a little self improvement too. Take a few months off of relationships and get your head clear. You're young and things will work out for you.
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