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writes:Okay heres the deal.. ONCE again about my boyfriend. It seems the only time he will be affectionate wih me is when he is HIGH!! Its really retarded! Him and I have had sex before and afterwards he NEVER.. and I repeat.. NEEEVEEER wants to cuddle or just lay there after, he always want to get up and do somthing else, like eat.. or go hang out with his friends or play video games. But a few nights ago him and I got high and had amazing sex and he layed behind me holding me and caressing my body to the Ambient/Rock music we were lisening to and it was great, hes never been so affectionate in our whole relationship... But as I speak to him on the phone right now, he seems like hes back to his old, "I dont give a damn about being affectionate because being around you assures me of how much I like you" self. Yes thats his excuse for not being affectionate.. He says just my presence around himmakes him feel loved... WHAT THE HELL ABOUT ME!?!?! Not getting a hug or a kiss when we see eachother? Not being held after being intamate.. NOTHING.... its VERY rare that he is ever affectionate.. is it me? Could I make myself better for him? I love him to pieces but this just doesnt make me feel good about myself :'( please help me if you can.... I just need some sort of advice...
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reader, Roses666 +, writes (31 December 2008):
Roses666 is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thanks for the responses, and if I try to be affectionate to him he kinda gets weirded out.. and no I still havent talked to him yet... I still need more advice :(
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 December 2008): Its not you.
Thats odd he doesnt want to be affectionate.
Be affectionate to him. Just sit on his lap one day and start kissing him. Unless he's gay he wont push you off him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 December 2008): No it's not you it's him. It's stuipd that he only wants to be all lovey dovey with you guys are high. My boyfriend and I get high a lot but even when we arn't high we still act affectionate tords one another. I'm not sure what to tell you if you have already talked to him maybe you might want to considering looking for someone more affectionate. Or just try your best to work things out.
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