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writes:My boyfriend and I broke up 3 months ago, the breakup was not overly negative. We had no contact since, but I know that ocasionally, he still goes into the 'network myspace' to view my social profile and updates, another thing is he still has not disconnected my cell phone (it's something he's been paying for all these years, not that I'm financially dependent on him, it's just something he wanted to do for me). I have not been using the phone since and told him to disconnect it rather than making payments every month. I just don't understanding why he's doing this if he has already let go and moved on??
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 December 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for you reply. It's his, he bought two phones with one calling plan, one for me and one for himself, and he been making the monthly payment. I'm just wondering why doesn't he cancel the one phone and continue to pay monthly payment if we're no longer together. I guess I'm just trying to analysis his actions and his words and what they really mean.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 December 2008): thanks for you reply. It's his, he bought two phones with one calling plan, one for me and one for himself, and he been making the monthly payment. I'm just wondering why doesn't he cancel the one phone and continue to pay monthly payment if we're no longer together. I guess I'm just trying to analysis his actions and his words and what they really mean.
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reader, 48years  +, writes (31 December 2008):
 Because he hasn't completely moved on-you know it in your heart.
But, he hasn't completely come back either. Guys seem to like to have a gal waiting in the wings just in case sometimes. And sometimes, they want to "give you space' but stay within reach.
It causes hurt and confusion to you only if you let it. Adopt the attitude that "wow, he must still be hung up on me...poor thing...la la la" and go your merry way.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 December 2008): Its your cell phone, right? But he's paying the monthly bills. Well, why don't you disconnect it yourself and get a pay as you go cell instead for your use? That way you only pay for the number of minutes you actually use.
In any case, you've told him to disconnect it; he hasn't, but you're not using it. I wouldn't worry about it; its up to him. Nor would I contact him over it.......ball's in his court now.
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