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anonymous
writes: ive been with boyfriend for 10 yrs have a child which shes 6 now and he recently broke up because ive made mistake and he can forgive but not forget hes made alot more mistakes than i have anyway he says he doesnt want anymore relationships just want to be my friend but why does he want to have sex with me still? and he will say nice things like im beautiful am i suppose to believe that. i love him so much but i dont think he wants me any more help!
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 December 2008): he may not be 'using' you, sex with an ex is easy and its almost a habit! but while it means nothing to him it means a lot to you. Your never going to move on while sleeping with him, dont let it happen anymore as it will more than likely get very messy and dont kid yourself to think that you dont mind it just being meaningless.
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reader, katatonik +, writes (30 December 2008):
It sounds like he's trying to use you for casual/uncommitted sex. He probably figures that it's easier to start a friends-with-benefits relationship with you than with some random woman, because the two of you have already been intimate and he knows you are not over him emotionally. Don't fall for it. Find someone else who isn't just going to flatter you in order to use your body. Best of luck.
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