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*tassha
writes:HiRight so my bf and i have been dating for six months at first everything was great, until I moved to a different town for him and in with him, first night he didn't come home, he made some story up and three months later I found out the night before I moved he'd cheated on me and the same with the first night. He apologised and we managaed to get over it but since then we've had our fair few fights because of rumours about him. He also works in a night club at the weekend most nights he doesn't come home claiming he goes to a mates place, i ask him to call me or text to tell me what he's doin and he just doesn't.Since xmas day I've seen him for a total of 4 hours I'd say. He was also meant to come home with me for a holiday but has cancelled as we've gone on a break till i get back(ten days)... i need some help on deciding wether to come back and try it again or give up defeated and go homeAll my friends think he is an absolute ass and they won't even come visit any more because of him. They don't want me to be any more hurt that I am but I can't describe the way I feel for him I just don't know what to do any more, I'm sick of being alone in his houseoh p.s i found out that I'm pregnant today...at 19 .Please help asap
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reader, btassha +, writes (30 December 2008):
btassha is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks so much for the advice guys, your totally right.
I love where i've moved to so much i've organised moving into a new flat with some lovely people for when i come back. As i have started uni here too.
However i havent had a chance to tell him that it's over seeming he didnt come home to say goodbye when he promised. He's drunk asleep at mates place so his mate told me texting off his phone.
I also am having some truoble packing its so hard leaving especially when i havent had some closure. i have a one thing in my bag after 5 hours, but i'll get there
Thanks so much !!
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reader, Emajayne  +, writes (30 December 2008):
 Leave now.
he is bad news and im sure ur friends will help u with whatever desicion you happen to make with regards to the baby. You are 19 years old. u dont need this kind of crap especially now. DOn't think of this as a competition. This is relationships, someone always gets hurt. If you leave he will realize what an ass he was and come crawling back and under NO CIRCUMSTANCES DO U TRY IT AGAIN! If u wait for him to split with u, which he will, u will wind up being hurt scared and most likely he will take all u have. Leave now or suffer greatly.
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