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writes: My girlfriend never believes me. I haven’t done anything to make her not believe me, I’m always honest with her, but she doesn’t even believe me when I tell her I love her or that I miss her, but she tells me she loves me. What is going on? What do I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 December 2008): I've been in this situation myself. I've done this to my boyfriend and from experience it had left him hurt and upset that I didn't trust him as he'd always been honest and all he'd done was love me. The truth of the matter is that she is probably hurt from a past experience it could be something to do with family hurting her or a friendship that left her feeling betrayed but it also could be the fact that a past boyfriend no matter how serious had cheated on her. You need to explain to her in a calm way how this makes you feel and that you'd like her to be honest with you. Ask her whats bothering her and makes her not trust you. Give her space and time to finally open up to you once you've asked her because she will eventually. For now just give her the reassurance shes craving for. Tell her how much you love her and make sure you tell her everyday you love her and she will come around and begin to trust you and let go of whatever issues was holding her back.
Good luck
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