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36-40,
anonymous
writes:My boyfriend left me for another girl when i was 7 months pregnant, because she was "kinky". He came back before the baby was born and has been with me since the birth. But I cant seem to let what he did go, and its destroying the relationship.And I just dont know if im being reasonable or if im overeacting. All the options hurt, but I want to know if I should forgive him ond forget about it, or if i should leave him. PLEASE HELP! Reply to this Question
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reader, smeedle  +, writes (25 April 2008):
 Ditch this dirty love rat, he is just not worth the heartach you have had and are likely to get again.
He let you down badly at a time you needed his love, strength and support and then when he was bored with his "kinky" lady he turned to you, maybe she was`nt all he hoped she would be, who knows.
Done it once so likely to do it again, so save yourself the future dilema, hurt and torment and ditch him!!
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reader, brooke5426 +, writes (25 April 2008):
 I can't tell you what you should do but I can tell you what I would do in your situation. And that is get shot of him asap. If he will leave you at 7 months pregnant to be with a girl because she is kinky, he clearly has no morals and no sense of responsibility or right and wrong. He doesnt sound mature enough to be in a relationship with anyone never mind an adult relationship with a child involved. I know it hurts but I honestly think you and your baby deserve better and need a man in your lives you can depend on and will be there for you no matter what. Not one that will up and leave for the first girl who sends a few innuendos his way and shows a bit of leg.
And anyway, he left you because she was kinky? How did he know she was kinky? You shouldnt take back a guy who cheated on you, and definitely not one who cheated on you while you were carrying his baby.
All the best
Brooke
xx
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