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51-59,
anonymous
writes:I just don't like masturbating together. When I don't have my privacy, I don't enjoy it. I can't concentrate and I feel like it is a show especially since the way I touch myself is not anything like girls do in the movies. The same goes for acting out my fantasies. My personal fantasy world is amazing and vast when I am alone but when I bring him into it, it takes me somewhere else. Don't get me wrong, we have a beautiful sex life. I just wonder if there is some way I can free my mind enough to enjoy his involvement in my "private mind world".
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 April 2008): This is definately a case of a woman's brain getting in the way of everything. Guys LOVE it when women do anything sexual. Masturbation is such a turn on for us so check your emotions at the door and just let yourself go. He will definatley like it. As far a porn look at the women who squirt (you know that they aren't faking it) and that is really what a women looks like.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 April 2008): Why let him spoil it, I am exactly the same and it is definately alot better on my own - because I can concentrate and make it whatever I want......Unless it is effecting your sex life, I wouldnt worry about it.
And the girls in the movies are all faking anyway - just remember its their job, its for the camera, its done in a way thats exciting to watch rather than a way that really and truely pleasures them.
Take care x
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