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writes:recently i have ran into a little problem when i masturbate i cant get off now matter how hard i try and i cant figure this out any help woould be great. Reply to this Question
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reader, natasia  +, writes (25 April 2008):
 I'm not a guy so I don't know, but I know that if this were my problem (as a woman), it would be psychological, not physiological. Basically, you've probably developed a small mental block. It could even be that after just once of not being able to do it (maybe for an innocent reason - you were uptight, it just wasn't right, - sometimes your body just isn't in the mood) - maybe after just once, the next time you were subconsciously a bit nervous about it, and that was enough to tip the balance and make it that you can't. And now of course the more you try the less likely it is ... you need to break this vicious circle. What about getting a girl to help you? : ) Or, although I think porn is very bad and rots the brain (kinda), a little bit of porn might help here? You need to bypass the thinking part of your brain that is stopping you, and just go on automatic pilot. Porn is soul-less and mechanical, but it usually does the trick, pretty quickly, so worth trying ...
Otherwise, seriously, involve someone else to 'help' you ...
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