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I like this guy, but he reminds me of my abusive ex.

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Question - (25 April 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 25 April 2008)
A female Australia, anonymous writes:

My ex bf was emotionally abusive and very narrcissistic. He was a very sarcastic person and would never show any sympathy, he would just be sarcastic. I have met a new guy and I like him but part of me feels like he reminds me of my abusive ex. He has a sarcastic side to him so I am kind of scared he will be like him. Am I worrying about too much or should I give him a go?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (25 April 2008):

Always be on your guard and never go down that path again. if he gets too much like the ex then run like hell.

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A male reader, binhquangdao United States +, writes (25 April 2008):

binhquangdao agony auntwatch his behavior and see how he is don't judge every book the same by it's color give it time and if it repeats leave him and move on don't stay and get hurt.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (25 April 2008):

We seem to attract our opposites. Have you talked to him about how his sarcasm makes you feel? If after you talk to him and he shows no interest in changing, you might consider finding someone else.

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