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*fly36
writes:Need Males to answer this please, why would a man not leave his girlfriend if she and him do not hardly have sex, they are distant, they lilve together but they do not ever do things together?????? He likes me and tells me that he is going to leave her soon that he is not happy but just cant get up and leave, they have a house together but no kids and no marriage, help me understand?????????/ Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 April 2008): Several reasons why he could be acting this way. One is his age. Sometimes people once they get to a certain age think their best years are behind them & they'll never find someone else. You said he likes you. Do you like him? He may not leave her until you've made it clear that you guys will be together if he breaks up with his girlfriend.
The best reason I can think of is that he's scared of the "breakup fight." His girlfriend is distant, not mean. He probably doesn't have any feelings of malice & he is putting off hurting her feelings as long as possible.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 April 2008): Sorry I'm not male but I can suggest an answer - because he's comfortable, he can't be bothered with the hassle of moving, he can come and go as he wants. She has become a kind of flat mate to him. Men can live like this fairly comfortably but we women can't understand it. I'm a lot older than you.Me and my partner have just split up after 18 months living together because he wants his freedom. He's gone back to his own house where is ex wife is still living. He told me it was less hassle being with her because she didn't question him..and why? because she doesn't give a toss about him basically. I suggest you move on and get somebody who will commit to you.I'm going to.
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