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She didn't seem to care when I told her I've been grounded, and wont be able to see her as much. Why?

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Question - (25 April 2008) 8 Answers - (Newest, 28 April 2008)
A male United States age 36-40, *obalu writes:

I told my g/f that I'm grounded till the end of the school year, and I'm only going be able to see her at school. She just stood there and didn't say anything. It looks like she doesn't even care =(.

I need help =( please I don't think she even cares anymore.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (28 April 2008):

Don't put up with your parents grounding you if you're any older than an 18yo senior in high school.

Grounding is junior-high stuff. You could go join the military at your age.

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A female reader, Nikkii Babyee United Kingdom +, writes (27 April 2008):

Nikkii Babyee agony auntwell the same thing happened to me when i was doing my gsces! i didnt get grounded but my mum and dad wouldnt let me out as much cuz they knew that the exams wer important! but believe me if she ddnt care shed have broken up with you because thats wat my bf did! when i told him he broke up eith my and made a really lame excuse! but just take her to the side in school and just be like listen chic i really dnt want this to end between us but i feel as if u dont care at the fact that wer not going to get 2 c each other as much! make her a few promises for the summer and really make the effort to stay behind after school an all to c her a but longer! even try to convince yer mum an dad to let her come round 1 night because this is whats important to u!

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A female reader, purplecloud03 Australia +, writes (26 April 2008):

purplecloud03 agony auntMaybe she understands that and thinks there isnt a need to complain to you and make you feel bad about not being able to see her. she is probably thinking of your feelings and understands the situation. Seeing her everyday at school isnt a bad thing, you still get to see her everyday. If you want privacy spend some time after school with her. tell your parents u got a detention or something.

she does still care.

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A female reader, caddington_devil United Kingdom +, writes (26 April 2008):

caddington_devil agony auntI had the same problem. I'm not grounded (only totally weighed down with exams) and I told my boyf I couldn't see him until June. It's his birthday next week and he got quite pissed off/upset. So she probably does care - she just doesn't want to show it. Tell her you'll make it up to her by going out lots when you're un-grounded. In the meantime, spend as much time as you can with her at school and pay her lots of attention. xx

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (25 April 2008):

Not enough details to give a good answer. Sorry.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (25 April 2008):

While at achool pull her aside before school/lunch and talk to her. Maybe shes just ereally bummed out that she won't get to see you so she didn't say anything.

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A male reader, bobalu United States +, writes (25 April 2008):

bobalu is verified as being by the original poster of the question

bobalu agony auntI don't know wat to do =(

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A male reader, bobalu United States +, writes (25 April 2008):

bobalu is verified as being by the original poster of the question

bobalu agony auntBobalu

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