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*ahara
writes:I don't know what to do, my friend's boyfriend really likes me and i like him. My friend and i don't speak that much now. I now speak to him everyday and really like spending time with him, but he still really likes his girlfriend. What should i do? Reply to this Question
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reader, Nikkii Babyee +, writes (27 April 2008):
 i really think that you shoulg just move on from this because although you said that you and yer friend cont speak much it isn't fair to do this to someone thats meant to be yer friend! you will get a reputation for taking this guy away from her and trust me it will not be worth it! get out there and find a nice guy that suits you! dont do this to yer friend honestly!
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reader, xXx_Nikki_xXx +, writes (25 April 2008):
Hiya,
The best thing to do would be to stop everything now, before you and your friend gets hurt cause it will happen. Sometimes guys like the power of having 2 girls. Trust me i've been in this situation and friends should always come before guys. At the end of everything your probably gonna be the only one whos hurt.
Hope things work out x
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reader, Gena Bullock  +, writes (25 April 2008):
 Stay out of the relationship for now. Be friends and that is it. You don't want to be pointed out as a relationship crusher, do you?
Gena
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 April 2008): Obviously its something you shouldn't pursue. But ask yourself how much you would like him if he wasn't dating your friend? Seeing a guy in a relationship can be a powerful aphrodisiac for some women. Also remember he probably feels comfortable talking to you because your friends with his girl (because in that scenario he's not gonna have sex on the brain). Just consider that your attraction to him may be based on what he's like as your friend's bf.
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reader, binhquangdao +, writes (25 April 2008):
 nope don't do cause he still has feelings for her and then you still are his rebound don't do it move on.
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reader, crownedprincess +, writes (25 April 2008):
hiya!!
trust me on this one dont go there!!
at the end of the day if he's willing to do this to his
girlfriend with you he's willing to do that same to you!!
this is your mates boyfriend were talking about here its
an unwritten rule that you dont do anything with your mates
boyfriends or ex's no matter how much you like them!!
you gota ask yourself how would you feel if a friend did
this to you!! you's feel hurt and betrayed by the guy but
even worse that it was with a mate!!!
you really need to think about this one cus your at an age
where all your mates will judge you for what your doing,
and 9 times out of 10 it wont work out!!
good luck x
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