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male
age
36-40,
*indy
writes:is my relationship over. my boyfriend went to sea for three months. in that time i got no letters a few email and a few minutes of phone calls. hes back and says things were weird to start with. i get no thanks for the tings i do for him. i sent him letters and emails every day. i have drive him every where cause he does not drive. he does not want to go anywhere like to a pub or a retuarant. only tells me he loves when he is drunk. he has leave soon but he going home to watch football instead of seeing me. hardly phones me either
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reader, duskyrowe +, writes (26 April 2008):
 GED RID OF THIS USER!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 April 2008): Have you had sex with him yet? If you have, that'll be all he wants you for - and the taxi service of course.
Not good I'm afraid. 3 months at sea and he'd sooner watch football than be with you? He's either a poofter or a user. I suspect the latter.
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reader, smeedle +, writes (25 April 2008):
 Right well if its not over it damn well needs to be, ditch this user, the term "our of sight, out of mind" springs to mind here.
he uses you ruthlessly when he is home, but when he is away its "what girlfriend"!!
Maybe when away it is difficult to send as much mail as you do to him after all he is working, but there is no excuse for this behaviour towards you when he is home.
Get rid!!
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reader, xXx_Nikki_xXx +, writes (25 April 2008):
The best way to sort this out is just to talk to him how your feeling, tell him you think things have changed and ask him how he feels about the situation. I guess after not seeing each other for 3 months things are going to feel a little arkward as things can fade in a relationship. But talk to him and you may be able to save it. Good luck!
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