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writes:My boyfriend broke up with me 3 weeks ago... i didn't do anything wrong neither did he but something happened in the past that he couldn't handle. now he is being so horrible to me... things at home are not good and he's the only friend i can tell these things to... but he's saying he doesn't care about me and can't hold my hand through anythin anymore.. i just wanted someone to be here for me.. we knew each other so long and told each other everything,.. how can he just stop caring i was so good to him.... please please someone help i am just heartbroken and can't deal with the pain and ache anymore...
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (26 April 2008):
I am very sorry for your break up.
Nobody wants to break up but sometimes it is inevitable.
When we fall down , we will have to stand up and walk again.
There is this site which will advise you on those steps to take to get over the hurts.
http://www.been-dumped.com/relationship-advice-and-articles.php
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reader, dearkelja  +, writes (26 April 2008):
 I am sorry you are going through this sad time in your life. You can not change this situation and unfortunately, you do not have this friend around to lean on during your tough family times. No one knows why this man who loved you once can not find it in himself to care for you now. It just happends sometimes that way. Most of us auntees and uncles have been in your shoes. You need to find some strength from within and rebuild your broken heart. You are young and I can tell you this will not be the first time you will be disappointed and perhaps you will have to endure many more broken hearts along the way. The good news is that you will also get to fall in love some more too. Just try to remember, it takes two and it sounds to me like this was a problem he had, nothing you did or didn't do. You can not change this so try to move forward.
Take care of you.
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