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male
reader, werther  +, writes (14 July 2010):
tell him... it´s a great trust to say i want you to hit my ass or tits or face even. that you trust that he will do it just right and give you the trill that you want and feel safe.. and you can also give back...
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reader, Susan Strict  +, writes (25 April 2008):
 Definitely tell him. Far too many people keep their fantasies to themselves when those fantasies are completely harmless and easily fulfilled.
.. AND, spanking is great fun although personally I prefer to be doing it than receiving it. *blush* My name isn't "Strict" for nothing...
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male
reader, anonymous, writes (25 April 2008): definately go ahead and tell him .. this is a big turn on for a man .. blve u me had u been my Gf i wud have loved it .... and let me tell u one more fantasy bout men .. they love women who seduce them by wearing skimpy clothes and then eventually strip tease .. this is one thing no man can say no to ... even the ugliest of the gals can seduce a man with her strong attitude , confidence to carry her clothes and aggresion at sex ..just go ahead wear a nice tight short denim shorts with a white tight top sticking well to ur skin n show him ur butt he wont be able to cntrl himself ;-)
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male
reader, anonymous, writes (25 April 2008): yes you should tell him. Maybe a more subtle approach would be to watch some porn together that features things that you would like him to do. Then you can suggest that he try it on you.
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (25 April 2008): Tell him! I bet he will LOVE it!
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 April 2008): Yes!! Go on, tell him. Life's too short to wait around.
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