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He hasn't responded to the message I sent him on facebook. Perhaps I scared him off?

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Question - (25 April 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 25 April 2008)
A female Singapore age 30-35, anonymous writes:

ok..this is a long story. I saw this guy in one of my classes at university and he was really interesting (he was sitting 2 seats next to me and we spoke casually for a while)

i didn't see him after that until about a month later while i was walking between buildings on campus. He was manning a community service booth and i went over to hear out his 'speech'. A week after that, i added him on facebook and he accepted.

Then i sent him a facebook message and he replied. BUT, i suspect that my reply after that scared him off coz he didn't reply back.

My friends told me to forget bout him coz they don't think he's gonna respond. But i tried one last time, again with a facebook message. He didn't reply.

Later when i happened to see him around school he smiled and said hi to me but he had a weird expression on his face like he felt sorry for me and HAD to say hi to me. Plus i think he was pointing me out to his friends when he said hi.

So my question is, should i give up on him? i quite like him but i think he thinks i'm a weirdo stalker girl, but i'm not! Is there any way to redeem myself now?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (25 April 2008):

phiatiger said it all.

also i don't know what you said but you shouldn't say some things through facebook.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (25 April 2008):

Forget about this bloke and move on, he probably isnt interested or maybe has a girl already. Good luck in finding someone :) Dan x

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A reader, anonymous, writes (25 April 2008):

Obviously I dont know what you said but if you told him that you like him then perhaps he has a girlfriend and he thought he best not communicate with you incase she took it the wrong way and thought he was interested. There could be a number of explanations for his behaviour so if I were you I would leave him alone, say hi when you see him and then maybe he will wonder why you have backed off and come look you up. x

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