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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:one of my best friends is falling for a lad who is well known for messing girls around and flirting with almost every girl in sight! she thinks he likes her back the way she likes him because in some lessons he'll touch her leg or tickle her - what she doesnt see is that he is like that with every girl and he is just messing her about. how, for her own good, can i make her see this? i just dont want her to be used or get hurt because i know thats how it will end!
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reader, purplecloud03  +, writes (26 April 2008):
 Just let her go for him, sometimes for someone to see that a guy isnt worth it they need to experience it. if she doesnt listen to you then let her go with it. and afterwards be a friend support her..if he is really what u says he is then they wont b together long..so she shouldnt get too attatched to him. maybe then she will change her look on guys
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 April 2008): This is a difficult one. The amount of times i've been here lol. Well all you can do is be a good friend and advise her that its not a good idea and that you don't wanna see her get hurt. But when someone likes someone a lot you kind of blank all the bad things out, i've done it so many times where people have told me its not a good idea but i dont see the bad side. If she doesnt listen to you then all you can do is let her go. Atleast you know u've tried, but sometimes we cant persuade people.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 April 2008): First of all, you sure you don't have a motive in this? You should tell your friend about your concerns but don't make too big a deal out of it. Teenage girls are incredibly naive. She won't like hearing it & will probably get mad. If this guy really is what as bad as you say she'll eventually be able to see the truth before she gets too attatched. In the end I think everybody goes through something like this. It'll help her mature.
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