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writes:Hello...This is my issue....I have a wife that refuses to change,whether its with situations at work, home, or with family. We had an in-law problem afew years ago, I am willing to forgive, she down right refuses to forgive(this is after 2 1/2 years). equally she has lost all motivation to be romantic even in the privacy of our relationship. We have been married for 13 years and it is finally taking a toll.Any emails to this will be welcomedThanx
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 November 2007): Am I to assume the in-law was your side of the family? Is she resentful towards you in anyway or holds you partly responsible for the impact this had on her? You don't give much detail but overall I speak from my own feelings about in-law trouble (or outlaws as they became known) in that because it was my husbands family undermining me I expected him to support me and 'go into bat for me' so to speak. It is really important that a woman feels supported and like she has a real rock for a man because this builds so much respect - when respect crumbles so do other things in the relationship. I think you need to get to the roots of why she may feel so let down. It sounds like she is hurting to me and the barriers have gone up?
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