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writes:I know a guy for the last 5 months. we work together and have become friends.we flirt a lot and recently he says that he wants more..he wants me, he wants to get to know me better.the thing is I know that I like him so it should be simple.except that he has more experience and I cant just be another notch on his belt esp when our values are so different.if i say i cant do it i lose the ease of the friendship and the flirting and if I do im giving in to something and compromising on who I am.how do you suggest that i deal with this without messing things up between us.
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reader, whiteshadow  +, writes (20 November 2007):
 your overlooking it wayyy too much. Do what you feel is right at each moment.. never plan how your going to work a relationship. It will come natural im sure. oh and if you say you cant do it...the only way he would lose ease is if he is a selfish person. if he likes you enough he will respect you no matter what you say you want to do.
good luck x
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