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anonymous
writes:I have been dating a guy for 3 months and I have 2 kids is it too soon to move in with him Reply to this Question
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reader, dear deedee  +, writes (20 November 2007):
i think that you need to be taking any relationship slowly when you have children to think about. You need to be sure about someone before you even start introducing your children to them, its not just your life your changing its theres as well.You must always put your children and there feelings first and for most.
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reader, flower girl +, writes (20 November 2007):
 This is just my personal opinion but i would say with the relationship still being in the very early stages and the fact you have children it's too early as it would be a major upheval for all of you and if it does not work out it may effect the children and obviously they are the most important thing.
Take care.xx.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 November 2007): Not necessarily. But listen, you are so young AND you have 2 kids. I mean what are you doing in your life?? Do you have a job?? Are your kids getting any financial support?? What's going on??
Obviously you don't have a place of your own otherwise you wouldn't be moving in with this guy.
If I was in your position I would be more focused on becoming financially independent, getting a place OF MY OWN for my kids to grow up in, providing WELL for my kids, and trying to find STABILITY, because kids need that to grow up well.
I mean if you don't have a job and you don't even have a place of your own, how do you find the time to get a boyfriend?? Where are your priorities?? I think you need to straighten out your priorities. That's the real problem.
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reader, whiteshadow +, writes (20 November 2007):
 yes! dont do it :( be independant not just for yourself but for your kids!! your kids wont need the ride of moving around if things go wrong with your bf :(
hope u dont xxxxx
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