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writes:My ex and I recently split up. I love her more than anything and I miss her so much. I've tried to move on but I can't. We're talking as friends via text now but it's killing me. I told her that we can't be friends and she said that she didn't want to lose me completely. But the texts she sends me are void of any emotion and it feels like she doesn't care about me at all. But she still wants me around. I really miss her. I want her back. But she seems happy with everything and I just don't know what to do.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 November 2007): Me again. It's so hard. I miss her. Not just as a girlfriend but as a best friend too. It really feels like I mean nothing to her now and it's only been a few weeks. I know that the reasons why we split up could be sorted out but I think she's scared to let her guard down. I've decided to leave it but I really don't want to let her go. We used to talk about long term plans and it's just so upsetting to see her moving on so quickly and without a care in the world.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 November 2007): I think this is one of these things that she still wants to hear from you on the other end of a text, but nothing more. For her she has moved on so you will have to do the same and get over her. It will certainly be hard, but take each day as it comes. If these texts are making things worse for you then i would explain this to her and tell her that you want the texts to end, because it isnt helping you to move on. Be brave and strong and stop texting now, meet someone else in the future and move on, this relationship isnt going anywhere but textland.
take care
xx
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reader, hlskitten +, writes (20 November 2007):
 Hi
Im sure she still cares for you. Why else would she not want to lose touch completely? Maybe she saw you as a good friend as well as lover when you were an item? In which case, her wanting to stay friends makes sense along with the lack of emotion in her contact.
Just a guess.
But obviously as a friend, she will also need to accept if you cant do the mates bit just yet.
Its a toughie when you split from someone thats for sure.
Good luck.
C xxxxx
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