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writes:what makes a boy/man sexy to girls? I mean what is attractive to them? I'm 17. What makes girls really tick? I heard if boys have lots of female friends it makes girls want them more. Thanks for any input in advance need all the help i can get. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 November 2007): I'm an 18 year old girl. Personally I'm not any more attracted to guys with lots of female friends than guys with few female friends.
But one of the odd little things that attracts me to some guys in particular is that they are really nice to their sisters and mom and really do care about them. I like it when a guy is willing to give up his time to run an errand for his mum, drive her somewhere, or just spend some time with her.
It may not be an attribute girls look for instantly, but I think when we sit down and think about it, that is something we look for in a guy.
A smile helps too!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 November 2007): I don't think having a lot of female friends makes you more desirable, in fact it could work against you. What really turns a woman on is a man that makes her feel 'special' Ask questions about her and take mental notes, have an interesting hobby, open doors for her, buy her flowers, write sweet notes, and compliment her, but be genuine. In the end it is all about how you make her feel, she should go away from a date with you feeling a little emotionally buzzed and thinking when is the next time I get to see him? And, whatever you do, don't push sex! She will come to you when she is ready and when a woman has sex with you she's already 80% yours.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 November 2007): wrong! if u have loads of gal frends there are chances that us gals would start treating you like a bro. gals LOVE guys who can make 'em laff without being disgusting.
also, if they start crushin' on u. a guy is sexy only when he judges a gal less and understands her more.
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reader, TomWilkinson +, writes (20 November 2007):
 There's an element of truth to having lots of female friends, but not for that reason. If you have a lot of CLOSE female friends (such as myself) they will often see you as "one of the girls" ie they will talk about pretty much anything they would with a female friend. This has helped me to understand women more, be more comfortable talking to them, be understanding, comforting and most importantly fun to be with! Some key things - Be yourself!Be happy, a smile goes a long way!Confidence is key, the more at ease you are talking to girls, the more success you will have.Be attentive, if you notice someone is acting a bit differently or seems quiet or upset, pick the right moment and ask them if they're okay, it always pays to be a good listener.
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