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writes:i have suffered alot because of my looks and extremely low self confidence alot of people used to say it to me. And i knew it was true. Recently i've picked myself up and tried bein confident. There's this girl who've i've like for a year now. I love her so much its not explainable. I think about her everyday, 24/7 in everyway, everytime i talk to her it just takes my breath away. I speak to her often. Unfortunately we have never gone alone out because somethings come up. And next week we were goin out for the whole day with 2other mates but some other girls have decided to go including a few of thier mum's. I got really annoyed because every single time we plan somethin it happens. I'm fed up. So she text me sayin sorry it will be pointless if i go because there's 4 girls 2 mum's all obviously wanna go shoppin and i'm only boy. Anyway since its been 2days i haven't spoken to her because i haven't seen her. Usually i would find her.I want to see if she cares and finds me to see how i am! How can i make her chase me?
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reader, Mistify  +, writes (20 November 2007):
 I think you have done the exact right thing. Withdrawal is often a VERY good way to find out if somebody is REALLY into you.
You are the hunter, and therefore you have to chase her, but it is not good if it is always a one sided effort.
If she does find you, and speak to you, and apologizes again, then you set your terms. Tell her that you'd like to go somewhere where it will be just the two of you, and both of you decide on a set date. Ask her not to tell all her friends, as this date might end up being crashed, like all the others. BUT DON;t contact her first.
If she doesn't find you to chat to you, then don't go running after her again. You deserve better than that....
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