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All I seem to do is play with myself!

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Question - (20 November 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 24 November 2007)
A male Australia age 41-50, *ickyd2 writes:

Dear Cupid,

I am wondering when I will get some sex, because at the moment all I seem to be able to do is play with myself which leaves more to the imagination. I have had several long term relationships and old girlfriends are gone. I like girls but I smoke and had a bit of an addictive personality. Girls find me attractive but I have shyness problems and am a little bit hesitant to take the next plunge or kiss. I have a problem sharing my girlfriend with other men and I also tend to think if she is attractive and we hit it off then when we are apart she is having sex elsewhere. My last sexual experience was with a prostitute who was a gold digger.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (24 November 2007):

Hi hun,

Im so glad frank answered your question as it has had me thinking as to what to put for 2 days, He said it all, I wanted to add a little...If your smoking thats going to make you lazy also you can go of into all different kinds of fantasys without actually doing anything about it as your nights will just pass and you will be thinking again the next day just what you have written.. Try to do your smoking at certain times of the day and get out, The reason you are probably paranoid about attractive g/fs having sex with others is to do with the puff and you sound sexually charged so you will see your g/f in the same light and not trust.

About the prostitute well thats her job to take your money so you cant really blame her it just the way some people are and if you choose to pay for sex then you have to expect that kind of thing, Anyway just try and get out meet someone and try to trust TAKE CARE LOVE MANDY xxxxxxx

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A male reader, Frank B Kermit Canada +, writes (23 November 2007):

Frank B Kermit agony auntStop touching yourself and stop letting your imagination get the best of you. Use that energy to figure out the kind of relationship you want, and then use the rest of that energy to pursue it.

It is not meant for it to come to you. It is up to you to go after it.

-Frank B Kermit

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