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writes: I have feelings for a friend that is going throgh trouble with his own sexuality.i dont know wether i should tell him about them or if i should just stay "the best friend" and help him through his own troubles.i really want to be selfish and let him know but i think that would be making things harder for him and me. i dont even know exactly what im feeling. i just want to talk to him but i dont know if i can talk to him about it.
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reader, Emi-Jem  +, writes (22 November 2007):
 Hey, You should stay as the best friend for now but slowly let him know how you feel like start off by saying to him something like your a great friend, because if you just told him then YES it would be harder for him beause like you said he is confused himself but if he decides he isn't gay don't take it too hard. I have 3 gay friends and one of them had a friend who was confused himself and it took time for him to decide his sexuality,In the end he decided that he didn't want to be gay and everyone stuck by his decision and when ur friend decides then u should support him as well!!! Sorry this was so long but I thought it might help.love Emi-Jem x
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reader, lboy +, writes (21 November 2007):
 dear reader,
i think that you should stay the best friend but over time let him know bit by bit how you feel about him, dont rush him into anything that will only make him no confused if u feel the need to do anything sexual i suggest that you just kiss and that is all dont do anything further unless it's his idea or he may just get so confused he is beyond repair.
good luck
lboy
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reader, TomWilkinson +, writes (20 November 2007):
 The most important thing is that you be a friend... for now. As you say he's unsure, so it would be best to let him decide for himself how he feels and which side his bread is buttered. If he decides he is gay, or wants to find out if he is, think about telling him, otherwise, wait until his head is a little clearer
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