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writes:Should i tell my fiance that i pecked a close male friend on the lips (this happened once when i had been going out with my boy for approx 2 months)? i have no feelings for this person i pecked - in fact, hes like a brother from another mother - but i'm not sure if my fiance would see it that way, cuz hes quite insecure. i only remembered about this early last week when I was looking through photos from that night i was out and its been eating me alive ever since, because i wouldn't like the thought of him pecking another girl - unless of course she was a very close friend too. The way it happened was - my friend was v drunk and he was pestering me to give him a wee kiss, just a peck, then he would leave me alone - i did it, then he left me alone! should i tell my fiance?? let me know, thanks.
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reader, thatgothgirl20  +, writes (20 November 2007):
 If it's eating you alive, just tell him. Also, there has to be a reason why your drunken close friend acted that way drunk. He may have had feelings for you back then and was finally expressing them. I know that you have no feelings for him, but I'd avoid him in case the same scenario were to happen again. I know it depends on the details of the situation, but that's just the way I am. Can a man hold burning rocks in his bosom and not get burnt?
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 November 2007): Just leave it alone and in the past. If you hadnt looked at that photo then you wouldnt of been reminded which goes to show that it wasnt uppermost in your mind. Enjoy your life now and forget all about it.
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reader, teeluv +, writes (20 November 2007):
 Don't look in the past to stir up trouble, especially if your BF is insecure. It's best to let this "peck" lie dormant since you say there were no feelings in a drunken stupor. Don't sweat the small chit! However if you are feeling guilty need to release that pain, then I would hope your relationship is solid and you two can talk about it. It shouldnt be a deal breaker but I dont know all the details. Good Luck and I wish you much happiness, now quit pecking drunks! Guys will say anything to get a kiss from a girl!
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reader, girlwhoneedshelp +, writes (20 November 2007):
 No you shouldn't tell him and I'm sure that even if you did he would probably laugh it off. This is nothing. A peck on the lips with a close friend is nothing to even be worrying about. If it was something more than that and you have feelings for this male friend then yeah you should confess but you don't have anything to confess here honey. Just forget about it.
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