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writes:This may be a little wierd, but I'm actually afraid to orgasm. I should probably start with I only get to have sex with my boyfriend every few months because he lives about 300 miles away. I'm sure that dosn't help with a problem, nor is the fact that we've never done it in a place where we were garanteed someone wouldn't come home and walk in on us. Every time I we were together I felt like I'd gotten closer. After his last visit and still not orgasming after the most amazing sex we had yet to have, I pretty much figured that maybe I couldn't orgasm. Turns out I was wrong. My boyfriend managed to find just the right spot while rubbing my clit the other day. However, I still didn't orgasm. I actually stopped him before I could because I was afraid to. While it felt amazing, it also frightened me. It was like, too much at once. I thought since I always come closer every time that maybe it won't be so scary next time. But now I'm a little afraid I was wrong in stopping him and it won't be the same again.Advice?
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 June 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI actually did the same thing and regretted it terribly at the time. However, doing it again and again it got easier. And it might be different, but in a good way. Don't worry, he'll surely find that spot again too.
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reader, TomWilkinson  +, writes (20 November 2007):
 This is perfectly normal, I had a girlfriend who did exactly the same thing, it took a few times but when she finally let herself go, she never looked back =) try to relax and let it happen, you will be very pleasently suprised =)
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