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male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hello! Me and my Girlfriend have been dating for about 3 months now, we have already engaged in sexual intercorse. Everything seems like our relationship is going well but then I've noticed lately that I feel like im second hand meaning the side salad if you get what I mean. We do not have sexual intercorse that much anymore and whenever I go to talk to her about sex she complains about having it every day? What should I do...? Much thanks x
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reader, love-him +, writes (20 November 2007):
 Hii, me and my boyfriend have been together for 17 months last sunday. Our sex life has been like that for quite a long time, howeever now, we have sex once every 1-2 weeks, due to him working away a lot. You need to bare with this as she is probably just not in the mood for it, maybe stressed which can make her sex drive go down. Maybe get her round to yours, and make her a special meal, candles etc.. If you live with your parents, then maybe go out, or just ask for some time for you and your girlfriend, then make a special night out of it. Dont continue to ask her about it, because this will stress her more, wait until she is ready to talk about it, it'l be worth the wait :) I hope i helped, mail me if you would like to talk x
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 November 2007): Hi,
In my opinion i'd get myself a new partner, no but seriously this is a new relationship so everything should be running perfect with lots of sex, is there any other reasons to why she does not like sex with you, do you talk about sex & what you both like etc.
I know its easier said than done but you need to sit down and talk about it all, dont accept no for an answer and dont let her run away, you need to talk openly about your feelings with each other & find out whats going on,
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reader, red1982 +, writes (20 November 2007):
After a while it usually feels like sex is all a man is interested in and the only time he does something for you is for that reason only. Instead of focusing on sex, focus on making her feel special. Cook her dinner, take her out to somewhere you know she would like, give her a massage etc, without it leading to sex. If you lighten up on wanting it all the time she will probably make the first move.
I think most womens sex drive takes a bit of a nosedive after a time in a relationship. It's nothing to worry about and doesn't mean that she doesn't like you anymore.
I hope everything works out.
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