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writes:My Fiance and I have been together for about a year now things are great.About 4 1/2 months ago he had to move to another state because he wanted to attend a good college for a year befor he went to the navy.So right now we're in a LONG distant relationship and I was supposed to be moving out there with him.Well we got into this argument about financial issues so the plans changed, he made his 150% sure decision he wants to go to the navy because to him he believes it'll be better for our future and he wants to be able to provide for our us and our family,have stability.As the days went by and I was trying to send him money things started to get alot more complicated, he started to doubt himself.we had the hour and 30 minute long conversation about how he needs a break to clear his head and take care of himself first before he can provide for me and our future family. He also said that he doesnt wanna tell anyone about the break just keep it between me and him because he's not asking for the break to say that he dont love me or dont wanna be with me its just to give him alittle time to worry about what he needs to do for him so our future together will be better in the mean time all Ill be doing is goin to visit him frequently. But as of now he wants to take a secret break...What does that mean?Because I've asked him to explain it to me and he said it doesnt mean he's looking for another female or he wouldnt have ever asked me to marry him, and he even brought up all the special times we shared like when I ended up pregant with his child twice but then I ended up having a miscarraige twice because of my A- blood not knowing I needed a shot to protect the baby and how he couldnt imagine being without me or cheating on me and losing me after all the things Ive gone through for him and just to be with him he just knows there's no one else out there for him and so much more..I just need some help Understanding am I making the right decision by waiting for him to tell me he's ok he's cleared his head the "SECRET" break is over, or is he just telling me all this to keep me as a rebound if he is in fact seeing someone else down where he's at and if that just doesnt work out he knows Ill be here?
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reader, SexyPeach101 +, writes (21 November 2007):
SexyPeach101 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionIm JUst trying to READ BETWEEN THE LINES.
So If anyone can help me do so I would Appriciate it.
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